If you're currently having relationship problems, your unconscious mind may resort to dreaming about a time and place when you felt extremely happy or loved. You're having problems in your current relationship. If you're still struggling with loving yourself or developing a sense of self-confidence, then it's not unusual that the source of that problem (AKA your ex) would appear in your dreams. Humans try to work out their subconscious or complex emotions in their dreams. Your first boyfriend may have delivered a serious blow to your self-esteem, and that kind of a hit can hurt for a long time. Your first love (and your first breakup) probably left you with all kinds of wounds - wounds that may still be open.
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Your first love will always be a part of you, which means that there is always the chance that it will seep into your dreams. You just can't forget them.ĭreaming passionately or longingly about your first love may startle you, but if you think about it, it's not that crazy. If you have a dream about your ex hurting you the way he did the first time, or about your current partner hurting you the exact same way your first love did, then you're projecting your past experience onto your present one. Your current partner may be the type who would never cheat on you, but because your ex did, you're subconsciously expecting it to happen again.
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If your first love did something incredibly hurtful, such as cheating, then you are probably wary or even scared that other men will do the same thing to you. You're projecting your past love onto your current love. Your subconscious wants to prove yourself to this person and make them realize they made a mistake by dumping you. If you feel as if your first love stopped acknowledging your worth at one point, then you might still have the desire in the back of your mind for them to see how far you've come and how much you've accomplished.